Okay some may feel this is a cop out for a "local" gift but it is the most precious thing you can give. YOUR TIME. There is no replacement for you. None. And you have friends neighbors and family that can benefit simply by your presence. Instead of ordering one more Amazon shipment, instead give a note with the promise of 2 lunches out together with committed dates. Or how about a " let's tackle that house project together friend, Ill bring the wine for the after party.
This shows so much. One you value them. Two you are willing to give your time and your undivided attention to the relationship. A truly rare find in today's world.
Here are just a few ideas to get your mind rolling:
1. buy movie passes ( good for anytime) and suggest 2 dates to put on the calendar
2. Offer a "surprise" day for a friend that doesn't get out much.
3. Offer a night of free babysitting
4. Offer free dog sitting
5. Give a Free manual labor day to your newly married kids or your parents
6. Make dinner and deliver to your friend with the crazy , hectic schedule
7. Offer your skills to a friend who wants to learn; Sewing, cooking whatever
8. Clean the house for an overwhelmed family member
9. Take your kid, spouse, out on committed date night and set 2 more in stone
10. Put up holiday lights for your elderly neighbor
Tell me what you have thought of. I know there are a ton of ways to bless people.
Or come to Texas and take care of your invalid cousin post-op!
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